Divorce Pitfalls - “Getting Revenge”

If you feel you have been wronged by your spouse, you may be fantasizing about exacting your revenge through the divorce process.  Fortunately or unfortunately (depending on what side you are on!), the divorce process is not setup to assign blame and punish the offending spouse.  Most states are considered “no fault” states, which means that blame will not be the primary factor considered in splitting marital assets.  Don’t spend your precious money, time and emotions trying to make your ex miserable.  The process is setup to equalize and split your marital assets as prescribed by your state law.